The short, human version.

We collect only what we need to run the evening: your name, an email, optional phone, who recommended you, and anything you choose to add to your profile.

Your profile may include languages, home country, pronouns, a short About-me, what you're currently open to (Dating, Friendship, Conversation, Creative/community, Open to possibilities, Vibes), and an optional relationship status. You choose what to fill in. Any of these can be left blank.

A few sensitive fields — dietary considerations, beverage preferences, and accessibility / comfort needs — are kept in a private section. They are shared only with the host(s) of experiences you've registered for, and never with other attendees. Use them only if you'd like the host to know.

On an event page we may show a small aggregate picture of the room (e.g. what attendees are open to, and — if the host enables it — relationship status). This is shown only after at least five people have shared the relevant field, only as rounded percentage bands, and never as numbers or anything that could point back to a specific person.

Your data is used to organise this event. By default it is event-scoped — we do not auto-port your profile into future events without your permission.

Contact details are never shared automatically. They are revealed only after mutual interest, and only in the form you allow.

You can update your profile, withdraw your data, or ask us to delete you. Email the organiser and it's done.

We are a small social experiment, not an advertising company. We don't sell your data. We don't profile you for advertising.